Comments on: Should You Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back? http://www.exrecoverysystem.com/blog/ex-girlfriends/should-you-get-your-ex-girlfriend-back/ Understanding Your Man or Woman & How to Get Them Back in 30 Days Mon, 16 Aug 2010 08:52:57 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: john http://www.exrecoverysystem.com/blog/ex-girlfriends/should-you-get-your-ex-girlfriend-back/comment-page-1/#comment-144 john Mon, 16 Aug 2010 08:52:57 +0000 http://www.exrecoverysystem.com/blog/?p=23#comment-144 dear friends I read all the comments u made, and i m also going through the same shit. Its almost being 2 months since we brokeup. it is so hard hard for me. since that day i m smoking and drinking till now, even though it is making my stress higher and higher. i have started communication with her recently but i have not really spoken about getting back together, as i know she is kind of afraid of commitment, cos once i screwed up saying I love u. It made us more apart and she is running away when i express my real feeling, but i do love her. I dont know what to do. she sometimes says i m the best, but i have a doubt whether she really means it or not. I m so much fedup with this mind game, i cant say what i feel. dear friends

I read all the comments u made, and i m also going through the same shit. Its almost being 2 months since we brokeup. it is so hard hard for me. since that day i m smoking and drinking till now, even though it is making my stress higher and higher. i have started communication with her recently but i have not really spoken about getting back together, as i know she is kind of afraid of commitment, cos once i screwed up saying I love u. It made us more apart and she is running away when i express my real feeling, but i do love her. I dont know what to do. she sometimes says i m the best, but i have a doubt whether she really means it or not. I m so much fedup with this mind game, i cant say what i feel.

]]> By: get back your ex girlfriend http://www.exrecoverysystem.com/blog/ex-girlfriends/should-you-get-your-ex-girlfriend-back/comment-page-1/#comment-141 get back your ex girlfriend Thu, 22 Jul 2010 15:09:43 +0000 http://www.exrecoverysystem.com/blog/?p=23#comment-141 We must think first if we really want our ex back because sometimes it is not love that motivates us, it is our dignity and oftentimes what others say. We must follow our heart but listen to our mind. Weigh the situation first then make a wise decision. We must think first if we really want our ex back because sometimes it is not love that motivates us, it is our dignity and oftentimes what others say.

We must follow our heart but listen to our mind. Weigh the situation first then make a wise decision.

]]> By: Bruce http://www.exrecoverysystem.com/blog/ex-girlfriends/should-you-get-your-ex-girlfriend-back/comment-page-1/#comment-135 Bruce Fri, 25 Jun 2010 00:07:32 +0000 http://www.exrecoverysystem.com/blog/?p=23#comment-135 My wife has depression and has been a poor communicator since the beginning. She's accused me of messing around for four years now, which I never did. She can be highly critical, but that mostly stems from her own insecurities. I ask myself if it is worth the effort, but we've been married eight years and have two children. I am a devoted father and husband. I think she is being absolutely selfish and putting herself before the kids. Because she can't effectively love herself, she thinks that we have been in a loveless marriage and has gotten involved with a new guy. She doesn't see everything I have done for the household and my dedication. I feel so unappreciated and disrespected. I oscillate between love and hate with her. I don't know what to do. My wife has depression and has been a poor communicator since the beginning. She’s accused me of messing around for four years now, which I never did.

She can be highly critical, but that mostly stems from her own insecurities. I ask myself if it is worth the effort, but we’ve been married eight years and have two children. I am a devoted father and husband. I think she is being absolutely selfish and putting herself before the kids.

Because she can’t effectively love herself, she thinks that we have been in a loveless marriage and has gotten involved with a new guy.

She doesn’t see everything I have done for the household and my dedication. I feel so unappreciated and disrespected. I oscillate between love and hate with her.

I don’t know what to do.

]]> By: William http://www.exrecoverysystem.com/blog/ex-girlfriends/should-you-get-your-ex-girlfriend-back/comment-page-1/#comment-134 William Wed, 23 Jun 2010 19:58:03 +0000 http://www.exrecoverysystem.com/blog/?p=23#comment-134 Brian, I'm in a similar boat as you. What I did to try to help myself was think about the arguments from her perspective and then try to change that problem inside myself. I don't know how well this will work because I haven't tried it yet, but I'm going to try to get back with my ex while keeping those things I changed from reverting back again. As far as not thinking about her, I have no solutions because I'm having the same issue. If anyone else has a solution or anything that will help please say something. Brian, I’m in a similar boat as you. What I did to try to help myself was think about the arguments from her perspective and then try to change that problem inside myself. I don’t know how well this will work because I haven’t tried it yet, but I’m going to try to get back with my ex while keeping those things I changed from reverting back again. As far as not thinking about her, I have no solutions because I’m having the same issue. If anyone else has a solution or anything that will help please say something.

]]> By: brian http://www.exrecoverysystem.com/blog/ex-girlfriends/should-you-get-your-ex-girlfriend-back/comment-page-1/#comment-121 brian Mon, 19 Apr 2010 17:00:43 +0000 http://www.exrecoverysystem.com/blog/?p=23#comment-121 I just broke up with my girlfriend and did the crying and begging to give me ! Second chance. We were arguing for two months before she dumped me. We dated for. A year and a half. She's says that she is happy and content with her decision to breakup with me. She is showing no emotion and says that she don't think well ever get back together. It's been a week and a half since we broke up and I just can't stop thinking about how much I want her back. I read the ex recovery system and sent the contact letter this morning on my way to a *on interview. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Brian I just broke up with my girlfriend and did the crying and begging to give me ! Second chance. We were arguing for two months before she dumped me. We dated for. A year and a half. She’s says that she is happy and content with her decision to breakup with me. She is showing no emotion and says that she don’t think well ever get back together. It’s been a week and a half since we broke up and I just can’t stop thinking about how much I want her back. I read the ex recovery system and sent the contact letter this morning on my way to a *on interview. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Brian

]]> By: Yggdrasil http://www.exrecoverysystem.com/blog/ex-girlfriends/should-you-get-your-ex-girlfriend-back/comment-page-1/#comment-73 Yggdrasil Fri, 08 Jan 2010 02:18:30 +0000 http://www.exrecoverysystem.com/blog/?p=23#comment-73 Chris, I think you're better of cutting your losses there. Don't you think you deserve better than what you are getting? Chris, I think you’re better of cutting your losses there. Don’t you think you deserve better than what you are getting?

]]> By: Chris http://www.exrecoverysystem.com/blog/ex-girlfriends/should-you-get-your-ex-girlfriend-back/comment-page-1/#comment-54 Chris Tue, 24 Nov 2009 09:36:40 +0000 http://www.exrecoverysystem.com/blog/?p=23#comment-54 Hey i'm not sure weather or not this is worth pursuing. So I got the book. And sent her the initial contact note. We went out for 11 months split up 2 months ago I made a couple of the classic mistakes trying to reconsile immediately after the break up and haven't really spoken since then other than to arrange sending stuff back to each other etc. It should be noted during the break up she was pretty abusive and rude. So I got a reply and 2 txts "If I get another contact like this I'm going to the police. I don't want ANYTHING to do with you. WHAT THE HELL about that can't you understand? GET OUT OF MY LIFE." And then 2 txts saying "Listen idiot. I don't care what you are doing. I do not want contact. F**k off and get out of my life!!!" and "I hate you and your pathetic attempts to remain in my life. Stop f**king emailing me. I don't give a sh*t about youand the idea of you ever being near my person again makes me sick. Just f**k off" It sounds insane but I still have feelings for her. She's always had a temper so I don't know what it means. She broke up with me a couple times in the past but always sorted it in a day or two. Her method of breaking up with me was a mixture of "the coward" and "the argumentative" She also said how her life was so much better after only one day of breaking up. Hey i’m not sure weather or not this is worth pursuing. So I got the book. And sent her the initial contact note. We went out for 11 months split up 2 months ago I made a couple of the classic mistakes trying to reconsile immediately after the break up and haven’t really spoken since then other than to arrange sending stuff back to each other etc. It should be noted during the break up she was pretty abusive and rude. So I got a reply and 2 txts

“If I get another contact like this I’m going to the police.
I don’t want ANYTHING to do with you.
WHAT THE HELL about that can’t you understand?
GET OUT OF MY LIFE.”

And then 2 txts saying “Listen idiot. I don’t care what you are doing. I do not want contact. F**k off and get out of my life!!!” and “I hate you and your pathetic attempts to remain in my life. Stop f**king emailing me. I don’t give a sh*t about youand the idea of you ever being near my person again makes me sick. Just f**k off”

It sounds insane but I still have feelings for her. She’s always had a temper so I don’t know what it means. She broke up with me a couple times in the past but always sorted it in a day or two. Her method of breaking up with me was a mixture of “the coward” and “the argumentative” She also said how her life was so much better after only one day of breaking up.

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